While not every negotiation will proceed the same way, there are basic steps you are likely to go through during a successful negotiation.
Salaries vary depending on what (if any) other benefits are part of the overall compensation package, the local cost of living, the availability of talented workers, the size and financial success of the organization, and, of course, the job itself and the level of experience you bring to it. Arrive at a fair salary range before you receive an offer by using:
Once you know the fair range, ask yourself:
Based on what you know about yourself and about the salary range, you can enter negotiation knowing the range that is fair to both you and the employer. This will help prevent you from looking flustered during the discussion, and will help you make a decision once you know the employer’s final offer.
There are several points at which you may be asked about salary expectations —before the interview, after the interview(s) have started but before an offer is made, or as the offer is made. When employers ask about salary expectations before making an offer, they are trying to determine whether:
Note that aiming too high or too low can cause you to be ruled out of the process. So, focus on getting the job before negotiating compensation. This way, instead of employers drawing conclusions about you based on your salary expectations, they will get to know about your abilities and fit first. Once they are convinced that you will be an asset, they will be much more willing to negotiate compensation based on your full worth.
Deferring talk of compensation may be easier than you expect. If an application form requires you to include a salary, you can note that the salary is “open” or “negotiable.” If a job posting — or a Human Resources professional —requests that you provide information about your salary expectations or history, you can respond with phrases like:
There are times, however, when you may benefit from discussing salary early. If you are applying for a job for which you are overqualified, for example, employers may fear that your salary range will not be within their budget. Address their concerns by explaining that you are familiar with the fair salary range for the job, and that you are excited about the work itself and have no concerns about the compensation. If the job is a significant step down, it may be to your advantage to state the salary range right in your cover letter, so that the employer knows you are fully aware of the likely drop in salary. Otherwise, the employer may assume that you would be unpleasantly surprised by the salary they can pay, and that it is not worth putting in time and effort to interview you.
Some employers may be very adamant about discussing salary early in the process. If you feel that you may be ruled out for not discussing the salary, by all means share the salary range you have researched, but also note that the salary would depend on the exact level of responsibility and on the total compensation package offered by the employer. If the employer asks you to agree to a salary range early on, leave the door open to future negotiation by saying something like, “If X is fair, of course it’s acceptable. But could we wait to discuss compensation, until we’re both clear on what the job entails and what I can produce for you?”
Once the employer offers you a job, you can discuss salary. Begin by stating your enthusiasm for the job, and reiterating why you will be an excellent fit for the role. Then note that you are interested in discussing compensation, but see if the employer will name a figure first. Try saying something like, “I’m sure you have something budgeted for this position. What range did you have in mind?”
Once the employer states their first offer, repeat the figure (or the highest number, if the employer states a range), and then be quiet. This will give the employer a chance to correct you if you misheard, and will give you time to compare the figure to your researched fair salary range, and to decide what to do next. If the employer is concerned about losing you, they may use the pause to rethink their offer and to open up the negotiation. Pausing will feel awkward, so, before the interview, practise sitting in silence for 10, 20 or even 30 seconds.
If the offer seems too low, do not give up. Remind the employer that you are excited about the job, believe you can bring value to the employer, and want to know what the employer can offer within the fair salary range that you researched. For example, you might say, “$45 000... I appreciate your offer, and am excited about the work. Given my track record of success in sales, I’m sure I can bring a lot of value to your organization. According to my research, a fair salary range for someone with my skills would be $50 000 to $55 000. What can you offer in that range?”
If the employer cannot offer a higher salary, you can say that the salary is below your expectations, and that you would be happy to discuss an offer that is fair to both of you in terms of bonuses, increased commission (if applicable), vacation or professional development time, or other benefits.
Even if you are tempted to say no immediately, try to avoid saying no in the room. Say that you need time to think about the offer, and agree on a date by which you will get back to the employer. This will give you and the employer time to think. Be sure to follow-up with the employer when you say you will. If you must turn down the offer, state that you regret it, and that you hope to encounter the employer in the future.
If the offer seems too high, take a moment to think about it. Ask questions to find out whether you fully understand the scope of responsibility in the role. You do not want to be trapped in a job if you cannot live up to employer expectations. If the scope of responsibility is what you expected, see if you can find out why the salary is so high. It may be that your research was incomplete, or that there is something about the organization that justifies a higher salary, such as a difficulty retaining staff.
If the offer is just right, still take 20 seconds or so to think about it. Then note that the offer is acceptable, but still do not accept the position —get information about the entire compensation package first. You could say something like, “That sounds fair. Could we discuss benefits, as well?” If you already have all the details, note that you are excited about starting the job, want to review what you and the employer have discussed, and would like to know when they would like your final confirmation.
In addition to salary, consider what benefits are most important to you. Not all organizations will offer all benefits, but you might ask about:
Ask for a benefits package to review while you are considering the job offer. If you are just starting in your career, you might not feel that a pension or insurance coverage is important, but when you require them, you will certainly be happy to have them.